Life is just a bowl of All-Bran…

March 15, 2006

Been a long time, been a long time….

Filed under: Family, Lucy's health, My health — bogl @ 9:46 pm

…but not a lonely one, as it turns out.

Much of the latest news is also on L’s blog, but I’ll try and summarise.

We are now thoroughly back in our house after the drains were replaced. We went on holiday to Winforton Court’s holdiay cottage soon afterwards. Glorious weather, though cold. We even got to take E on her sledge for the first time, which was wonderful.

Whilst our car was parked in Winforton Court a builders’ merchant lorry managed to put a big dent in our car roof and boot door. They accepted liability (how could they not??) but a merry half-day was spent entertaining L in in their premises. Quite easy actually. The car has now been fixed.

Life seems to be settling down somewhat now. L has had her last two doses of Epirubicin, which went without incident. Long waits, however, are unavoidable. She is beginning to get more and more tired, but is still going to work one or two days a week. E has been a little bit poorly lately, but is over it now.

I had an appointment with the orthopaedic consultant last week. The scan shows I have torn my meniscus on the inside of my right knee, and I will be having an operation on Weds 29th March to try and fix it. It will be a keyhole procedure, which should try and trim the frayed part of the meniscus back. It’s not without its possible drawbacks, but it’s become evident it will not heal by itself.

More to come….

February 23, 2006

A draining experience

Filed under: Family, Lucy's health, My health — bogl @ 10:16 pm

It’s been a while, and here’s why!

The last post was Wednesday 15th. The next day, we innocently flushed the toilet, and the whole lot backed up. Thankfully, it didn’t overflow.

We knew there was some kind of problem because the gullies outside the house didn’t seem to be clearing too well, and I had it in mind to have a go at clearing them. The toilet was the last straw.

I beetled off to Homebase to get noxious chemicals, plungers and the like, and started trying to clear the gullies. Nothing budged at all.

I started going through the ‘phone book looking for drain clearing people. One firm came out within the hour, but without immediate success.

A friend who lives round the corner was on holiday & we were minding the house for him. Taking this responsibility to its logical conclusion, we moved in there that night (thanks Rich). As he was coming back the following day, and the house was still not habitable, we booked in to a local hotel, with the distinction of being the only licensed premises on the Bournville estate.

We stayed there until Wednesday morning, by which time the drains guys had done all their work and the cleaners had tackled the kitchen & bathroom. Cleaners? Can’t the Harrisons do their own cleaning?

On Tuesday morning I was sat on the bed in the hotel room tying my shoelaces. I stood up and wiggled my foot around in my shoe so it felt just so…and my knee went again. If that’s all it takes, it really does need some looking after!

L couldn’t do the cleaning, as she shouldn’t be getting in contact with potential sources of infection, and I was walking like an old man again. L’s father suggested we just got someone in to do the cleaning, so we did. And very good No Limits of Hockley were – unlike another company who laughed down the phone and said, “[Company] couldn’t come out on the same day!”. They won’t be getting our business again.

All I can say is: it’s great to be home.

February 1, 2006

The new wife

Filed under: Family, Lucy's health — bogl @ 11:31 pm

Not only has L had her first dose of chemo this week, but she has been preparing for the loss of hair she’s likely to suffer.

When she first heard the news, L’s friend Louise said, “If you want me to come up and go wig-shopping with you, I’ll do it!” On Wednesday she came up from London for the day to help out. You can see the pictures here.

They seemed to have had a great time. By the end of the process L had not only narrowed down the choices of wig to two, she also got a fab new haircut, by far the shortest she has had since her age was in single figures. I think it looks great – but it may not be around for long.

Thursday I went with L & E to make the final choice from two wigs called “Tonia” and “Blair”. Resigned to becoming a walking ad for New Labour either way, we (especially E) settled on “Blair”. The other would actually take a good deal of styling, whereas “Blair” was more straightforward to deal with. E enjoyed the wig place so much she didn’t want to leave!

She’s now very confused. She keeps saying to L, “Take your wig off Mummy!”
L's new wig
The wig: “Blair”

L's new haircut

The new hairdo

I watched a Christian poison my wife!

Filed under: Family, Lucy's health — bogl @ 11:20 pm

Overdramatic title maybe, but strictly true. Today was the first dose of chemotherapy for L.

The cancer dept has a nice airy waiting room, which looks like a superior airport departure lounge. L announced her presence, then waited. The clinical trial nurse came, arranged for L to have a final check with a doctor, then went in to have her chemo.

The nurse was lovely, really kind & caring. Turned out she was a member of a local church. Hence the title.

Administering the drug was very trying. Neither she nor another nurse could get the needle into her arm. Finally they did manage it, but as veins are only supposed to be injected once like this, she only has one more “go” left in a vein for her subsequent treatments. She will probably have a more permanent “line” inserted into her chest in the not-too-distant. This has to be done in theatre, and may mean another overnight in hospital.

Meanwhile I was sent off as errand boy to the pharmacy to collect the seven different medicines she will need over the next few days. These include a mouthwash (chemo can be hard on the mouth and throat) and antisickness drugs. I also collected the syringe for her injection tomorrow to boost her white cell count. Most of these drugs are on prescription and need paying for – time to get an “all-you-can-eat” voucher for the year.

Of course, in with all this was a great deal of Waiting Around. We were in at 2 and came out at 5.20.

And now, we wait to see how the whole business affects her. She has an appointment tomorrow for a wig fitting.

Anyway, thought I’d put a photo of E in reading the paper. She looks geuninely disturbed from reading an important article about the issues of the day.

E disturbed from reading paper

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